sending you loveI believe the world can always use more love and so can we as individuals.So I am sending you a big hug, love and an invitation to lovingly expand your awareness of who and what you really are.

The who and what part can sometimes be very tricky. I bought my first home when I was 21. It was definitely a fixer upper. It had a wonderful, old claw foot bathtub. I remember sitting in it, soaking after I spent the whole day fixing a leaking water pipe.

As I sat I thought to myself, “Who am I really?” Little did I know that such an innocent, short little question would have such a profound effect on my life.

(As a little aside I have found that the quality of our lives is often dependent on the quality of the questions we ask ourselves but more about that another time.)

At first my answer to that question was very superficial. I was in college at the time and still trying to decide on a major. It was the height of the 60’s so my answers quickly expanded into more and more profound (often drug induced) explorations. 

The Beatles began talking about Transcendental Meditation so I found a local center and started to meditate. I read lots of books and eventually changed many of my beliefs about life and who I am.

I believe:

  • Only the love is real, everything else is an illusion
  • We are amazing limitless beings of love and light and laughter
  • That everything is perfect just the way it is
  • Judgments acts like cosmic super glue, attracting the very things we judge

These beliefs were a far cry from my fear based, judgmental beliefs that really boiled down to, “I want to be right!” And I simply wanted the universe to do it MY WAY. I was the queen of causes. Save the Earth (the earth is fine we as a species may not survive). The list goes on and on.

Today I would rather be happy any day and I can truly see the perfection in all of life. When I express that people often ask me, “Why would I ever want to change then?” My answer is either curiosity or to expand my capacity to love depending on the day and what’s happening.

So what would love do in your life right now?

What thoughts might change? What opinions would you let go of?

Love to see your thoughts and feelings in the comment section or just send me an email.

With lots of love and aloha,

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